Never Enough Time… ?

Published April 18, 2014 by Jamie Barone

“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention.” 
– Thich Nhat Hanh 

nnThis is something I have always known, and in truth, I’ve always prided myself in this area (self-righteous might be a more appropriate word to use), always making sure not to neglect anyone or any relationship that is important to me.

Well, pride is a tricky thing, friends, yes it is, as it has found a way to slap me right in the smacker! Oh yes it did! You see, as a single mommy still trying to regain my balance (though happily so), I have found myself to become increasingly busy with various, very important aspects of my life. With no family, all of my close friends having moved away and living in other states, this single parenting responsibility/Joy can really take a toll at times, on my, well… Time.

I, the one who has always been there for everyone at the drop of a hat, have suddenly found myself unable to do so. And, while this is a bit of a shock therapy to me, please imagine the shock to those who were so use to my unending attention. That’s right folks… I, Jamie Barone, am now unable to be all things to all people at all times. Whew!

The positive side of this equation is that I have learned who my true friends are; those who authentically care about me and those who never did. For those who have not given up on me, oh how I thank you… oh how grateful I am for you.

While I am learning to healthily balance my time and to make sure I do not neglect those who I Love and care about, I have indeed learned that I must take care of myself first if I want to have any energy to expend anywhere else, including the most important people and relationships in my life.

Learning and growing… and grateful for each and every moment, and each and every person who holds a special place in my heart.

I Love You…

Love,
Jamie

By Jamie Barone

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8 comments on “Never Enough Time… ?

  • “I, Jamie Barone, am now unable to be all things to all people at all times. Whew!” That one was tough but felt oh so good, didn’t it Jamie? Congratulations for finding your balance! Love, me

  • I think it’s great for us to realize that and admit it. And to learn to say “no” every now and then! Honestly, those who stay with you even when you can’t be there for them 100% of the time are the true friends. Those are the ones who, instead of asking why you aren’t there, ask if THEY can help YOU!

    Visiting from the A to Z challenge signup page. Great to meet you!

    Stephanie Faris, author
    30 Days of No Gossip
    http://stephie5741.blogspot.com

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